Tommie Smith

Tommie Smith, a beacon of love and kindness, passed away peacefully at the age of 91 on November 5, 2024, in Lufkin, TX. Born on June 12, 1933, in Timpson, TX, she was a daughter to the late Thomas Henry Howell and Edna Skimoor, and over the course of her life, became a cherished mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother to a family that spanned five generations.

Tommie's life was a testament to the power of unconditional love and the warmth of a caring heart. As a devoted housewife, she was the cornerstone of her family, creating a home filled with laughter, support, and treasured memories. Her hands were rarely still, as she was always tending to the needs of her family or lending a helping hand to friends and neighbors.

Her spirit and legacy are carried on by her loving children: Donna Courtney and Kenneth Sand. Tommie's life was further enriched by her daughter Mylinda McNealy, who predeceased her, leaving behind a tapestry of memories. She was a proud grandmother to Donna's children, James Lynn, Melissa Courtney, Tommy Courtney, Harlee Courtney, and Marquithei Courtney, as well as Kenny's children, Mike Sand, Chad Sand, and Craig Sand. Tommie's joy multiplied with the addition of eight stepchildren, 35 great-grandchildren, and six great-great-grandchildren.

The family tree continued to flourish with Mylinda's children, Jennifer, Michael, P.J., Michelle, Meagan and the eleven great-grandchildren they brought into the world. Tommie's life was marked by the love she had for her extensive family, including 19 grandchildren, 51 great-grandchildren, and 20 great-great-grandchildren.

Tommie was the last surviving sibling of her family, preceded in death by her brothers, Billy Kelton Howell and John Robert Howell, and her sister, Vivin Doris Kessanger, as well as the Baby Howell Boy. Her life was also touched by the loss of her daughter-in-law Brenda Sand, son-in-law James Courtney, and her cherished daughter Mylinda McNealy.

Known for her loving and kind nature, Tommie Smith was a matriarch in the truest sense. Her guidance and wisdom were the compass for her family, and her gentle demeanor was a soothing presence to all who knew her. She was a woman who found joy in the simple pleasures of life – a warm meal on the table, the laughter of children, and the company of loved ones.

Throughout her life, Tommie was actively involved in her community, offering a helping hand whenever needed. Her door was always open, and her kitchen was the hub of not only nourishment but also comfort and advice. She was a woman who believed in the strength of family ties and the importance of being there for one another.

As we bid farewell to Tommie Smith, we celebrate a life beautifully lived and a journey completed with grace. She was a treasure to her family, a friend to many, and a heart that truly made this world a better place. Her legacy of love will continue to live on through the generations she nurtured and the countless lives she touched.

In honoring Tommie's life, her family will gather in remembrance and thanksgiving for the love she shared and the memories they will forever hold dear. Her presence will be profoundly missed, but her spirit will remain an eternal flame in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her. Tommie Smith's life was a journey of love, and her story will be told with fondness and admiration for years to come.